Not quite sure how to describe this one. It all depends on how one looks at it.

Today’s Gratitude Item: Being able to eat a small dinner! It turns out that sudden loss can make one lose one’s appetite for a while. Mine came back today which was a huge relief. Am still grieving (of course) but the ‘one moment at a time’ strategy is mostly working. That and crying. A lot. I tell people that we are ‘OK / not OK’ right now.